I'm sure that's true. I'm definitely not turned on by me xH either. I'm turned on by myself and I no longer choose to share my sexuality with my xH because he is a PAL. I am still a woman who is easily aroused and fluidly sexual but I more fully own my own sexuality. IMO, both HD and LD are conditions caused by lack of sexual ownership. It's not that it's all relative. It's just that it depends on your perspective.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
