I agree with Trying... I think you should go dark for a few days. Perhaps that will scare the hell out of her that you are truly letting go.
It seems your W is trying to keep you within reach and it prevents her from truly seeing what life is like without you. She is obviously in a comfort zone, thats why she is getting so angry with you. Remember, at the base of anger is pain.
She's hurtin Jar, keep it up.
Hurtin: 32 WAW: 30 D: 8 Bomb: 10/05 Sep: 12/05 Back together 8/07 Bomb (OM): 11/07 Filed for D (me): 12/07