My H took our kids around OW and her kids for almost 4 months while they were having their A. They are still having the A, they just don't bring the kids around it anymore. I hated hearing stuff like you heard about the indoor playground from the kids.
What would he do if you confronted him? It goes against the DB rules (I think), but he is gaslighting you (making you think you are crazy to suspect anything). I questioned H about the cell phone bill and other things, but until I point blank confronted him, said I knew....
Stay calm, make December about you and the kids. Take care.
