That might be a good point to bring up to your dear hubby. He thinks you are being unfaithful what the he** does he think she will do? He doesn't even have a reason to suspect you. She is already doing the act and has before.

Fine and dandy if she wants more kid's but miss princess will have to go out and work to support her new life. Your husband couldn't support her on his income could he?

I am sorry but I think it is utter crap that ANYONE should have to pay maintenance or alimony to a spouse that has cheated!! Are you sure your laws state that you have to do this? If I were the Ow's husband right now I would be of the all's fair in love and war. I would be looking into ways to make her chosen life difficult.