Suspect Affair- please help!

[Michael Mc C]

KPK - Sorry you're going through all of this. All the doubt, the questions and the worrying about what H is really up to. Same happened for me and has already been said, usually our intuition is right about these things, especially when things just add up too easily.

Since no A has actually been exposed, I'm not sure what advice to give other than to make yourself the person your H wants to be with. Read DR and see if there are things that maybe you've been doing that could have been pushing him away - sorry if that sounds like an accusation, it really isn't. We sometimes do things and never realize the impact they have on our spouses, especially if they don't tell us about it.

How well do you know the possible OW? Any idea how things are in her marriage/relationship? I don't recommend prying, just curious if you know anything about her.