Yeah I agree it could be he will think she is unattractive now that she is single sort of speak. I mean think about it she is a stay at home mom. That will mean him supporting her on his income. Right now he has a wife that is pretty and very stable and has never had an affair and is loyal. All these bad things, that he feels he is justified in thinking about you, and the break down of the marriage I am sure he will weigh out and analyze. He just wants to be angry with you to try and justify what he did . I am not saying maybe he didn't feel the way he did at the time and it did hurt him. But I do feel he is waaay over amplyfying things to justify his actions.
To be with her as a divorcee may not be to exciting to him anymore. He lives a good life right now with a wife that busts her azz off to give the family a good life. She runs around cheating all day and oh yeah showing up at school to look good on some days also.
This also I think will be a pretty huge slap in the face reality for her. Cut off from money and has so many decisions to make now. Where will she work? How will she support herself? Who will she use for daycare while she works? I don't believe you get alimony when you have had an affair. Ahhhh she will be needy and clingy and so stressed out. Not to attractive anymore maybe?
