OW's mother met H at bars with OW. Yep. And she covered for OW all summer when her and my H were together. OW's parents have an odd history to say the least...they are divorced, both remarried, but cheat on their spouses with each other!!! H has also met her father. I found this all out today. Oddly, it doesn't bother me.

I can understand a parent 'siding' with their own child, but I would hope I could say to my cheating daughter that she deserves to be happy, but this isn't the morally correct way to do it....

About your day jar...keep in mind, she is not talking about the letter, but actually reacting to it. That's what is happening. Please remember that she doesn't mean half the stuff, even if she thinks she believes it. I am sorry about your D5 though...so innocent and precious...how dare your W take that from her.