I might call HDs more 'inner' focused and LDs more 'outer' focused in terms of what influences a person's sex drive... the 'state' of the R seems to have very little influence on the SD of people we call HD.
Yeah, it's amazing how the sex drive of the people formerly-known-as-LD improves when the 'state' of the relationship becomes one in which the spouse formerly-known-as-HD is someone who no longer lives with you and suddenly looks really hot when you run into her in the grocery store or hear about her new BF.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
