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HDs are not necessarily "wicked horney", wanting it all day, every day. but whatever level they do require, doesn't change much based on whats going on around them. And what we often call "LD" is not always just plain low, but rather, it seems to come and go, and be very much influenced by external circumstances.


I'd agree with Cac here on this one regarding HD/LD. I might call HDs more 'inner' focused and LDs more 'outer' focused in terms of what influences a person's sex drive... the 'state' of the R seems to have very little influence on the SD of people we call HD.

But personally... I think it ALL has more to do with 'degree of respect'(for other AND self) than anything else. Demonstrative respect, to me, is honesty and trust. (for other AND self).

Takes a lot of awareness. And courage.