The thing with the other man has me thinking. I don't think that they will ever be anything more than friends. Although they did date briefly over ten years ago.
She has lied to me about talking to him and seeing him while we were still together. She's always said that she doesn't know why she did that. She started hanging out with him a month ago and that's when she really closed me out of her life. He's gone over seas now and she's back to talking to me.
Last night when we were talking, she told me about how a bunch of her friends want her to go to Spain. This is where he is moving to. They would all be staying at his house and he would basically provide everything that they need once they got there. She would only have to buy a ticket to get there. She was conflicted as whether to go or not. She said that as a married woman she didn't think that she should be traveling out of the country without her husband. On the other hand she said that this would be a trip of a life time since everything would basically be paid for. I just listened to all of this last night and didn't really say much. I think that you all can guess how I was feeling about it though.
I don't want to play second fiddle to this guy even if he is just a friend. I feel like I want to tell her that if she wants a chance with me at all then she needs to not let him into her life. I know that I can't do that, so do any of you have a suggestion as to what I CAN do?
Me: 29 W: 28 T: 10 M: 7 No kids 2 Dogs and 1 Cat With Parents: 09/16/07 Apartment: 10/13/07 Back Home: ~2/16/2008
