Hi,
I think that's what I was trying to say, too -- I let my anger and hurt get the best of me, too sometimes -- despite trying to DB. Just got to let go sometimes...

OW hopes one day you'll see her differently? Get real. Until she has gone through what you have gone through, she has no idea. What nerve.

I'm waiting to see if your H will file after pushing you to do it.

Joie