With a couple of exceptions, all my friends have been very careful to say they will support me no matter what I decide. There are only a few people I am talking to regularly because most of my friends are not married and they don't understand.

As for his evaluation, I don't know. I tried to ask him about it a couple times and he'd just go off swearing about it, how it's all BS, how there's nothing wrong with him, how it's a bunch of PC/pussy/whiney crap, and would never tell me when it's going to happen. I guess I can call his commander and ask. Problem is, his commander doesn't know me like his old one did since he's new to the unit. And also, I'm not sure how much his commander believes anything is wrong because he doesn't know how much H has changed either. Plus his commander might tell him I've been calling and H would see that as checking up on him and flip out at me.


Michelle - Proud DR Rockette
S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09
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