sounds like time to cut him off, then.
you keep pursuing.. he keeps looking to get further away.
now, to "out of state".

So.. pursuing him.. even just "staying open" to him...
"isnt working".

time for the LRT, sounds like.

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle