I read a post about detachment and how someone just decided not to continue their efforts. Somehow, this gives me a bit more comfort about my restraunt meeting w/ WAW. Seems this is the right attitude to have with the validating, understanding, etc mind-set. To remove your emotion and think as if you were them. I guess not thinking with your heart. If I were more detached then I think this would be easier. If I keep my focus on 5D, then I'll be able to validate, understand, etc WAW the way I need to do.
New plan for meeting. 1) Very brief...I understand this is what you want (re:D) and basically nothing else. Not the novel before...Want to tell her thank you for opening my eyes and do best for 5D...about it. 2) If she apologizes again, Just say do not worry about, maybe luck into saying we just do not communicate to each other. Big luck bring up R and communication 3) Basically just listen. 4) She will probably ask what I want in papers...So, I need to have topics in mind to steer conversation. 5) Make it clear that I need time to consider what we have decided so far regarding 5D. Could even say that I had made plans for later this evening before she missed prior meeting. Definitely leave restraunt first. 6) Keep focus on 5D and basically try very hard to detach from her. To not consider she and I, just 5D and I. 7) Only consider she and I, if she brings it up, yet validate and understand her feelings when she does disagrees with legal points or anything else for that matter. Like missing 5D or something.
