Input, WH and I own business together

[grid, lost]

mike,
yes have read 6 stages of MLC, my H seems to be in stage 6, he already crashed with the depression. Very very bad depression. At times, no moment from moment H seems to go from might like to soon talk again (to me) to there is nothing left to talk about. I am gone ! In fact yesterday I went back wards and became really mad with him. Even talked D, he seemed fine with that one to. Mentioned I had been laying in bed thinking about all money to be spent on attornies for D and the hughe amount of C one could buy with that sort of money. H could have cared less and had no comment. Boy does he ever make me mad then ! lol So I am making sure not to come in contact with him today for any reason. Business can burn to ground as far as I am concerned I'll not take his call or contact him. Not that he is likely to call me. Some times wish i had another guy could go out with just to try and make him jealous ! my luck he wouldn't be jealous, rofl.

WOW your kids and you (mom too) sure had quite the scoccer life ! Nice everyone had so many good times and experiences from the sport. Very lucky indeed. i was in school before girls were encouraged to do anything other than be a cheerleader or a secretary ! YUKE1 I wanted to play not stand on sidelines! lol So I became very competitive in horse shows and barrel racing. Barrel racing is one competitie professional sport these days. If only I had followed my dreams, mmm, is that a MLC, moan I hear. lol
I never realized salt water had to have such a big tank! What breed of angels did you raise? I am going to go on line and see if can connect with couple acquatic societies.
Don't beat yourself up to bad about doing everything wrong since last summer. We all reacted the same. no one ever teaches us relationship skills growing up. H left oct 2006 and not till a year later did I really start looking in to research. Thought I would figure out something myself. My big mistake. Although, have to say for 9 months a MC insisted I keep coming to see him. I was ill, money problems, depression and then H walking out. Believe the C. feared I might look for a high bridge or something. Actually I felt like C was more upset about my stich than I. LOL I just kept believing in time H would try to work things out. Wrong.
Strange your wife would let go of all her friends as you say. that is depresssion for sure. Say she isn't one of us, SAS, people is she. SAS= Season Adjustment sydrome. People who can not tolerate, short hours of day light. Guess it is a medically recognized severe form of winter depression. I after fighting this for 10-15yrs just broke down and purch. a special light to use and help SAS. I have only been using it for about a week and something is different. Even Cornell University has a special lighted lounge for SAS. Staff and students can use it if they desire. Can this possibley end the depression goes on and on.???? Time will tell us.

I don't quite understand why you would want to file a conter suit??? why would you care if your wife drops her D filing? Missing something here???? Can she do more damamge by waiting ? IF she would drop D would you still go through and D.?
Well I certainly have rattled on long enough.
oops, forgot to mention. sent H a thank you card for the gift he had given me. He was so happy I thought to send him a card and thanked me a couple times. Now go figure
later,
grid