Got ya there.. this was the first Thanksgiving in 5 years I wasn't at the in-laws. Same with Xmas. Can't stand the jewelry commercials.. can't stand the Xmas "family" movies. Every thing I see now has a jaded "divorced" view.
My C called it the round of "firsts". Get through these, and hopefully things get better.
Yeah I hate those also, It makes me depressed. I to see those in the “jaded divorce view”. I usually change the channel so I do not have to see it.
Originally Posted By: jarhead
How is your friend and family sitch.. last I posted, they weren't able to come around. Has that changed? This time is VERY important for that.
Maybe use your "shell breaking" to make some new friends you can share the holidays with.
Well family sitch still the same, no visitors, just phone calls asking how I’m doing. My cousin came over last week and hung out for a night that was great. A few of my friends come over every once in a while. I did hang out with the W best friend last night; she came over a watched a movie. She said that I need to sign the papers and screw her over. She doesn’t like what my W is doing to me, and just in case you are wondering, there isn’t anything happening between her and I..I couldn’t do. I think that I could make some new friends while trying to break out my shell..
