I noticed that too after & during my whole D sitch -- just an example was the couple across the street -- I could hear them fighting/arguing all the time, just had a baby, etc. and I felt bad for them and couldn't help but think "if only you knew!" I see R's so differently now too -- I see people totally taking their spouse for granted and, again, wonder when one of them may reach their breaking point and want out.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
