Kett, You have piked up on something there. When MJ made that suggestion, my first thought is that my body wouldn't react that way so fast, and his might not either, given our 20 marriage history. In order for me to go from 0 to 60, I'd have to conjure up some fantasy. Lou's suggestion of cop-n-feel play was more realistic. The main thing here is for us to have some fun with each other, but I keep tripping over myself.