That's the part I struggle to understand and wonder about. Is she working toward that goal or just paying lip service?
Manwithaheart,
JM makes a good point here, but, it's irrelevant whether or not she's working toward the same goal (sorry JM). While I'm not completely familiar with the history of your sitch, you must have been doing some things right for her to come back home in the first place.
What were the things you were doing that were working? My suggestion would be get back to basics -- go a little dark and focus on your GAL activities. Take the focus off of her behavior and focus on your own personal improvement.
And don't worry about the meltdown. I had the mother of all meltdowns and he still came back...now we're engaged!
