Why is that so hard for this BB? Maybe b/c they do not want to hear it? Maybe b/c they do not want to believe that this can be their outcome? Or even that they may have to admit to themselves that this should be their outcome?
I think that's probably a big part of it.
The people on surviving the big D aren't supportive of you moving on because they like to have other failures to make themselves feel better. No, they are supportive because they have been where you are. Most of them are there because the D proceeded despite their efforts and so they are left surviving or because they realized that their spouse really wasn't the one for them....because a relationship with this person would be unhealthy. I think you are in the later category.
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In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
