I'd love to tell my W - I'll work on doing the things he does for you. I forgive you and will agree to work on our M. I've told my W that this marriage is dead. The only choices we have are make a new one or go our separate ways.
I think after some time has gone by, only 2&3 apply. It's not the same.. (just got this revelation the other day).. and they miss that.
It's funny to hear.. "I miss what drove me away". That's not what she said, but she may as well have.
