Chuck is right on. She's waiting to see the old you come up. That would make leaving that much easier, and confirm in her mind that she's made the right decision. You also have a huge advantage if she's not seeing someone else. So, try not to think down that route. That's a bad place to go to, believe me. You really are being strong and remember you can't believe ANYTHING the WAS says. They are confused, and it's going to be hurtul. Don't believe it.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
