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[SueS]

Jar-

I think you made 3 really good points. My problem with their logic on those three points is this......

1- Tell me you feel like you're stuck in a rut. We can change things up. I'd be glad to up my attention to you if you think it's slowed.

2- Tell me that you're afraid that I won't accept you. TALK TO ME!!

3- If you want to work on things, but don't want it to be the same as it was.........TELL ME. AGAIN....TALK TO ME. It doesn't have to be the same.

In our case, we did get into a rut. We'd moved, H was working part-time nights and staying home during the day with D3. We didn't have a lot of time together, but to me it was only temporary. D3 would only be little for a few years. TELL ME.....I'LL DO WHAT I NEED TO DO. That's all he needed/needs to do is TALK TO ME. After nearly 17 years together, he knows I'd do anything for him.

Man this is tough stuff.

SueS