Hi lizzy,

Sorry you are feeling down. \:\( HUG

I wholeheartedly agree with Brit. Setbacks happen, just like sh** happens. ;\)

And remember not to believe what you HEAR. That's what FIL said H said, but not what your H is SHOWING you right now. To me he is showing you how he feels. Even thought it would take 9 wild horses to drag it out of him right now. I also agree that if it has been 5 weeks and nothing has happened with a D or any negative things from him then he is sticking around still. It's a positive!

Do something really positive for yourself today, dress up and do makeup as if you were going to go out and do something special. Sometimes just foofing it up outside will help you on the inside.

You are special lizzy, you deserve it. Be good to you.

Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.