DNQ, like MMF, I think that the reason you think more men return than women is because you male LBS tend to give up sooner than women. You'll seem to see men come here all ready to save their marriags and then a few months later claim that they are ready to accept their sitch and want to move on. The women seem to be able to wait it out better.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford