Wow. I really do see that as a great thing. You obviously have been doing some good db'ing in my view because this is also one of the first signs that I noticed from my H too! Without me having to say a thing, he admitted he was unhappy with himself and look where we are now! I'm so happy for you I could just burst. Small positive for you, but for us db'ers we can shout from the forum rooftops!
Keep on recognizing these small things and it will keep you going through the difficult times. Keep being cautious and practicing good DB. Proceed slowly. Sounds like you have a hook into her...just keep it slow.
That sounds like a great book, I shall have to pick up a copy.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
