My W moved out and bought a house. She had made up her mind that she was not coming back. Our communication centered around the well being of the children. She was gone for about 16 months. I used my knowledge of the state's legal system in my favor. When she had her lawyer send me a letter to contact her to discuss the terms of the separation, I just did not call. I'm sure your state is different, but there are ways to drag things out as long as possible. I understand you have to respond to some things legally, but make sure you don't volunteer anything that doesn't need to be done immediately.
PoohBear
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
