So, if the ones who are sitting on the fence are not truly "in love", why are they staying in the A's?? Addiction? Mentally ill?? Alzheimers?? Testing our love for them? Being blackmailed?? Hmmm.... interesting

ow in my case definately thinks it's love - she divorced her H ASAP and is now just "waiting it out" until the day she can be with her "true love" (my H).