mwel... do the AD's. This will help. You can always get off of them when you are further down the road. That's what I did.

Keep up on the 180's.

I hate to say this, but you've seen what happens when you chase and pursue.. time to go back the other way.

Especially now.. now that the OM is out in the open, you need to pull WAAAAY back.

I apologize for not being closer to your sitch, but it sounds like the Holidays got you. They are over for now.. focus on yourself.