Yep.. stay the course. It sucks.. I know, but stay the course.
I guess another question I have.. you seem very anxious to talk to her.. what do you want to talk about?
She's probably sorting things through her head. Trust me.. with D crying and all last night, she's wrapped in a heavy guilt blanket right now.
Think of it from her perspective.. all this happened in a flurry. The emotions/consequences from all of it may be hitting her now. Especially if he's out of town.
Keep it up.. you are doing great. Did you send something to your D?