Houndfan, I'm so sorry your counsling appt didn't go as well as you'd liked. It must be difficult to sit in a room and hear your wife say those hurtful things. But, I see the bright side of this. I don't know the book that your counselor reccommended and I can't seem to find it on Amazon, but it sounds like a good read for your wife right now. Let me ask you this, would your wife read it?? I ask because my husband is not a reader and has never read any of the books recommended by our counselor. But, women are different, and I hope she picks up the book NOW. You too. If you said in your session that you would read the book, you better do it. You need all the credibility you can get. I also hope you're in IC as well.
DB away buddy! We're cheering you on!
Kudos for moving back home. I'm praying it's the right step for you.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."