With MLC Women - Do they come back????

[FaithfulH]

DNQ,

I have followed your sitch but I don't believe I have posted to you. I think there are several parallels in your sitch and mine...except my W and I have reconciled. You can find my threads (I only have 5) by going to my signature block below for the last one...at the top of that thread are links to the other 4 if you care to trace my journey.

Like Poohbear, I took the passive approach to the legal proceedings. My W filed for Legal Separation 2 weeks after the bomb...and then "upgraded" that to Divorce 4 weeks later. This despite the fact that she spent 4 hours telling me how surprised she was at all of the positive changes she had seen in me. I never moved out...nor did she...physically. Emotionally, she was a thousand miles away. Physically, she moved into the guest room. But don't get me started....that was then...this is now...and we are enjoying the best relationship we have ever had. We celebrated our 27th anniversary last June.

I'll leave you with one thought. I think my W actually left me primarily because of things she had to deal with (MLC stuff)....but, I believe she returned when she saw that she could "trust" me again. I'll keep an eye out for you...and I'll be glad to answer any questions you might have if you get a chance to scan my threads.