DNQ, I think that is actually the answer (poohbear). It is a matter of waiting it out. From a majority of the posters here, I think men have a tendency to be less patient than women (MLC or LBS or WAS). Women will put up with a lot more than men typically. I will say I am seeing a lot more MLC women now than MLC men at my place of employment. I know of three different men in our division alone that have wives that could be MLC.

I have a hunch that we would see more success stories from the men but we have a tendency to need a R or the attention of the opposite sex more than women seem to. We all get lonely but men seem to find it more excrutiating to be without a companion. I disagree that it hurts women less but I think their "pain tolerance" just like in child birth is much higher than the average man's.

IMO, of course.


Me:56, W:51
D:26,S:24,S:22
Married:18
Bomb 9/27/06
Separated 11/27/06
Divorced 10/6/08
Leaving it up to God