OK...so we're still dark. How long does it take a WAW to initiate contact after the revelation of OM?

This just really surprises me that she doesnt even send me an IM just to say hey. She was really talkative right up until OM came along, as soon as I found out, all contact ceased. Its now been almost 2 weeks of NC.

Do I continue on with being dark?

Hurtin: 32
WAW: 30
D: 8
Bomb: 10/05
Sep: 12/05
Back together 8/07
Bomb (OM): 11/07
Filed for D (me): 12/07