The passive resistence approach is where my head has been lately. I'm just going to try to be as still as possible and not move things forward that don't need to be moved forward. There are some legal issues that must be dealt with in the immediate future, so that cannot be delayed. However, from what I have seen in the courts, I can make this process take two years or more if I really try. My wife gave me our first bomb on Christmas Eve 2006 (nice timing, don't you think?) and I was essentially forced to move out. She asked me to move back in in February, then out again in April. Downhill since then. So I'm actually about a year into this now, not counting the time I firmly believe she was MLC prior to the bomb. I also believe she spent 2006 in a depression.
I need to jump out there and take a look at your thread, but I'm wondering, did either of you move out of the house during the separation?
Contratulations on the the 20 year anniversary! That must have felt pretty damn great.....
