If I was changing to meet my Ws current desires, I would be sleeping around with many differnt women, getting tattoos (nothing wrong with tats -- just not for me ), partying and even possibly a bizarre R with her.
I am making changes in my life that I need to make for myself by doing the right thing. Long term, I believe, she will appreciate that I didn't give into these types of temptations but for now, I believe it really aggravates her. I still am doing these things for myself and to be a role model for my children.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God
), partying and even possibly a bizarre R with her. 