He did ask me to quit yelling at him. xh said he wants to talk to me about a lot of stuff now, but not while I'm interjecting snippy insults.
Oooo.. that's a biggie.
There's a big difference between "making it clear that you are unhappy/dissatisfied, and why", vs "interrupting him with snippy insults".
The first, is communication about your feelings and thoughts. The second, is disrespectful to HIS feelings and thoughts.
Sorry about the eating thing. If you want to stay healthy and not lose too much weight, try the protein shake things. (the ones to help BUILD, not the "diet" ones. there are two different types).
Or, heck... just go with straight-up milkshakes (the ones with real milk/cream, not the fake junk)
PS: if he acts "surprised" about you "still" being upset about JD... you might explicitly mention, that you cant imagine you feeling any other way, while he continues to see her.
Last edited by Dom R; 11/29/0706:03 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle