I think that it is time for my H to realize what he will be losing. I have not given him the space to miss me. (Or maybe I should say, I have not ENFORCED the boundaries so that he would miss me.)
Absolutely, well past time IMHO! As for the space/boundary thing, I'd say a bit of both. All the R talks and pushing for answers and such are definitely causing no space. I don't really see what boundaries you HAVE with him though - speaking as someone who has very recently figured out what the heck a boundary even IS and beginning to learn how to enforce them.
What ARE your boundaries w/regards to your H?
(no need to answer here, but a good question to answer for yourself)
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
