eventually the detachment and the "do I really want them back" will start kicking in.
Well, she is not beating my door down. Like I said above, I see that she is starting to consider things and not just say NO to everything. Such as us meeting to discuss legal stuff. Another part of conversation Sunday, which was a lot of paper/R talk, was my request to seek LRC/LMFT for 5D and for her to help pick them. She was against it at the beginning of conversation. One reason was simply the Licensed MARRIAGE part of the title making her say NO. When I addressed it as concern for our 5D being torn apart and illustrated why, she said "ok, fine" when brought up again 30 minutes later. Another small reconsideration. All very small but steps.
As I consider her "standing-me up" last night, I feel 1) our conversation will be a lot more R talk than previously expected and 2) she will 'cave' on a lot in her papers to get the D. I just don't see meeting to say "I won't do that" repeatedly.
