Yep, W should be able to say why. Many don't. Mine didn't. Sucks, but, what can you really do? You push and you push them away. It takes time, but eventually the detachment and the "do I really want them back" will start kicking in.
BD
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
