MWEL - I'm sorry to hear about this.

You have to let go man. She cannot be convinced or talked into trying to give you a chance. Back away from her and stop all contact. That's all I can recommend. If you can, get some counselling as well to help you through this. We never know what the future holds but right now she is somewhere else in her heart and mind. If there is any chance for things to work out, it will not come from you asking her for that chance.

You need to work on you and I mean really work on you. If you can't get counselling, maybe there are groups/organizations where you live that can offer help. Stay on this site to help you through the rough times.

I know this isn't a very hope-inspiring post but there is hope for YOU. Your wife should not be source of your happiness in life. That happiness needs to come from within.


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D-Bomb: 9/19/07
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W wants to fix marriage: 3/16/07