JM,
Avoiding writing for work, so I'll chime in. In a way, the marriage license or your divorce papers are just that -- paper. Just because you get divorced, doesn't mean you can't eventually reconcile. Besides, in your W's mind, your M is over.

FYI, I tracked down Just_Me's thread about a month ago. He did get divorced and remarried. So he's coming from been there, done that.

BD

My latest

Me: 36
W: 35
2 D: 9 and 5
T: 16 years
M: 12
10/4/06: Bomb
10/5/06: Ended A
4/22/07: ILYBNILWY

I'm a beautiful butterfly.