He is pushing your buttons to force you to make the decision to file - it's like they need us to agree that D is the only answer.
Actually, when he brought up D a week ago, I said that I would contact my attorney the next day. He said no, we should wait until we sell our house so people don't think we need to dump it. However, I did agree with him that D is obviously the only answer if he continues the A. He will have to be the one to file, though.
My IC thought the push for a decision might have come from ow ho. I was telling her about the recent developments and that ow said how she hoped that someday I would see her differently.... MY IC laughed out loud and said - "You'll never be her friend. Her "hopes" are not of any concern to you".
Joie - when I say I need to control my anger, I mean saying these really awful things. I've reverted back a couple times to the begging and pleading and getting nasty stuff. DB or not, I let my hurt and anger get the best of me.
