I have been doing ok the past few days. I never text him and I get the 'hope you have a good day' text. Just got one actually. I have made a list of the things I want to say to him someday when this all comes to a head at the right time. One thing I did think about was even if he promised no more contact with OW or anyone else....how do I ever believe him? I want to say prove it, but how? Ask for his phone records? My only way of knowing was cut off, so now I either go on his word (which is worthless) or not.
Jak, and anyone else....keep talking to me. I know its a pain in the a**, but I really need the support to keep going.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
