Hey, girl, if it makes you feel any better, it could just be a "guy thing." My H seems to just want to "get on w/ it" and doesn't dwell on things, etc. I have slowly allowed myself to ask certain things, but I usually wait & make sure that I really need to discuss/ask about something before I bring it up. At first, I was still "scared" to ask anything - afraid that it may "change his mind" again about staying & not getting a D or whatever. I finally began to feel more comfortable. This piecing deal sucks pretty badly and I can tell you that the trust thing is hard. Every time I think I've overcome it and am absolutely sure he will never cheat on me again, something happens to make me *wonder*.
Anyway, especially at this time of year, just see if you can't enjoy, relax and just sit back & watch for a bit. See how things are going, how H reacts/acts and see what works best for you.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
