I actually got to address the last straw on Sunday. She said she cannot be with anyone that would do that. I said good, because that man doesn't exist anymore. She then started in on all the things she has wanted me to do, such as church, and I was able to say on every point I am doing it's now that's how I want to live my life. She knows it. Maybe not convinced it's permanent or just doesn't want to look.
I really wish I knew how I could have addressed the paragraph above better. Especially when she started listing things she wanted me to do in the past and the 180's that address them for me now.
