[/quote]I actually had a good evening last night even with OW being there. I can't stand her but I finally looked at her with pity. She knows she is in the wrong and I know I am doing the right thing. And if it ends up the dh can't step up and walks away and even ends up with her I know I have done the right thing.
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please keep this in mind everyday!!!!
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She did bring up a good point with it...the reason this is happenening is dh's fault. Because of his cake eating, he has 2 or more frustrated women. Me and stalker. He has a foot in each pond but never fully jumping in to either. Stalker gets frustrated and makes threats. Dh is obviously giving off signals and vibes that he is still an unattached man to the world. If he ever chooses to stop giving off those signals, the threats to me would stop.[quote]
Your GF sounds like a very smart women.
You need to detach from him. Take positives as just that. Do not expect things to all of the sudden change, especially when right now you have been enabling him. He has just what he wants his freedom to come and go as he wishes and with whom he wishes and you are both letting him get away with it.
Pity OW because she knows she doesn't have him any more than you do (even less actually), that is why the texts from her she is scared she will lose him.
Speaking of texts STOP talking to him about it, you look needy and wanting attention for it in his eyes and yes it will push him away.
Let your GF help you to get a life for you and the kids. At least fake it till you make it.
Do not call or text him all the time. IT IS PURSUING.
Don't mean to give you a 2x4 but i think you need it
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
