interesting evening last night. i have been asking the Lord for a sign concerning our situation. last night i received it. i have no idea what the outcome will be, but i caught a glimpse. my daughter wanted to go to the movies for a middle school benefit. she had told her mother about it the previous night, but i never heard about it until last night. my w was weighing in at weight watchers meeting 20 miles away. daughter called her to remind her, but she had not thought daughter was serious. so i took her to the movie theatre and meet w there. we dropped her off, w suggested we get some dinner. i said ok. while sitting at dinner, w told me when she was on her latest trip to bay area to see aging grandmother, she had lunch with her aunt. her aunt told her she had not looked this good since she was in 8th grade. my wife looked at me with sad eyes and said yea she looks good on outside, but is torn up inside herself. i know not a big deal. but it is the first time in 9weeks she has verbally said how unhappy she really is. i caught a glimpse, a sliver, of her inner being. i honestly wanted to just hold her.i know this is just a glimpse. but it was something. i cried and prayed and thanked God later that night.
different subject, i was given a book to read, Captivating, by john and stasi eldridge. it is for women, and every women should read it. but as a man, i believe every man should read it also. it is a glimpse into a womens heart and soul, it is very humbling. i will give my w a copy for christmas. i hope everyone will have a great day.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023