Not sure she was looking for anything... that's how she is. She has no respect for me or my job. Never has.
My previous job, I was oncall, worked weekend maintenance windows etc. My new job.. I get to work from home.. no oncall, no weekends, almost doubled my salary. Limited travel.. trips to tropical places if I did well.
She hates it. I don't get it!!
She hates it because it's not about her. I hate to say this Jar, but I think everything is all about her. Her reaction at urgent care illustrates that she wants to be the center of attention all the time.
My XW did the same kind of thing. The message was "if you really love me, my every whim will be your first priority." It is an unrealistic, soap-opera, view of the world. I wish I had some advice for you on how to deal with it, but I think that you are already doing better than I did.
