I also do not totally believe that. I cannot respect something I don't believe to be true. That would be a lie, and I respect Jeff too much to lie to him, or with him.
I like Jeff. If I didn't I'd just watch him wallow in hurt and not care. Jeff is stronger than this. Sometimes a man just needs other men to observe that.
There are a lot of things in life that I don't believe. That makes it hard for me to support it but sometimes I must. For instance if my boss makes a decision that I don't believe is the best for the company I give my opinion and my reasons. If he still stands by his decision I have to respect that and support it, or quit my job. Same here, I respect Jeff's decision that he no longer loves and wants to to be back together with his W or I quit reading and posting in opposition. Jeff is the WAH now. You know what would be so great? if his W shocked all of us and said she wanted to try again. Never say never. We could all say 'told ya so'.
Of course there are exceptions to that - if Jeff said he was going to drive his truck into a telephone pole at 100 mph we would not respect or support that decision, try to talk him out of it, or get to Huntsville in time to pull his keys. I don't need a mans genitalia to observe that.
Anyway, this is Jeffs thread and he's a big boy, I'll quit interjecting before this turns into a thread like FIB gets.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
